Colossians 3

What is the relationship between family relationships and giving thanks to God? I noticed that Colossians mentions giving thanks three times in 3:15-17. Verse 17 says:

And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. (ESV)

That is immediately followed by a discussion of household relationships: wives and husbands, children and parents, servants and masters. The very next verse, after dealing with these relationships, is about giving thanks. The discussion runs from Colossians 3:18-4:1. Colossians 4:2 says:

Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. (ESV)

So, between "whatever you do ... giving thanks" and "continue steadfastly in prayer... with thanksgiving" we find instructions on household relationships. Could it be that without grateful hearts toward God we have a difficult time demonstrating holiness and godly behavior toward those we are closest to?

Here is a principle to try then. Next time you find you attitude toward your spouse, your parents, your children, or those with whom you work, to be out of kilter try thanking God. See if perhaps a heart of gratitude toward God didn't change your attitude toward others as well. After all, God not only connects thanksgiving with family relationships, he also connects it to experiencing the peace of God.

Col 3:15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. (ESV)

Let's give it a try. Father, I confess that I am too often grouchy and too seldom thankful. Today may I recognize your gracious gifts and give thanks.

By His grace,
Rick Weinert