Titus 2:2

Titus 2:2 (ESV)

Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness.

 In a previous blog I wrote about the need for believers to be living counter-culturally so that our life impacts our world with the gospel? But what does that look like? In Titus 2:2-6 Paul describes what counter-cultural living looks like for older and younger men and women. Older Men, elders, according to verse two, should be sober-minded. That is, they should be clear thinking rather than intoxicated. They should be dignified. That is not stuffy, but honorable and respected. They should be self-controlled. Interestingly, this is a different word than Paul uses in  Galatians 5 where he writes about the Fruit of the Spirit. Galatians’ focus is on control of the body. The word in Titus focuses on control of the mind; sound of mind, not carried away by emotions, moderate, even-keeled. Additionally, older men should be sound (healthy) in faith. They should have learned to trust God. They should be sound in love. The word for love here is agape, self-sacrificing love. Finally, they should demonstrate steadfastness, that is endurance and patient waiting. As a young man I was always in a hurry. Things needed to be done now! Older men should have learned patient endurance.

In my early years I served as a Missionary/Pastor under Village Missions. Three of us young pastors had attended a conference together. We came home all worked up about something. It needed to be addressed, and it needed to be addressed now! Mr. Duff, the founder and National Chairman of Village Missions, sat down with us. He listened to us. Then he said, “I’ve been around a long time. I’ve watched these things come and go.” Finally he challenged us not to allow this issue to distract us from our primary calling as pastors, Ministers of the Gospel. It was the great advice of a mature older believer. That is the kind of influence older men should have on the people around them. As believers, the older men in the church should demonstrate steadfastness, endurance and patient waiting, for the sake of the gospel. May that be true of us as believers in Jesus Christ.


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