Love and Betrayal - 2 Timothy 1:15-16

2 Timothy 1:15-16 (ESV)

You are aware that all who are in Asia turned away from me, among whom are Phygelus and Hermogenes. May the Lord grant mercy to the household of Onesiphorus, for he often refreshed me and was not ashamed of my chains,

Betrayal comes in many forms. Paul mentions two individuals in particular, of “all in Asia,” who had turned away from him. Notice that it does not say that they turned away from the Faith, or from the Lord, but from Paul. Apparently when Paul was imprisoned for his faith many of his friends began to disassociate with him, possibly out of fear that they too might be arrested. In his time of isolation and imprisonment he found no one to support or encourage him except Onesiphorus. There are at least two applications from this passage. One is connected to “all in Asia.” They abandoned Paul out of fear, but that abandonment felt like betrayal. Betrayal does not necessarily need to be active. It can be passive. Failing to reach out to someone in need can feel as much like betrayal as falsely accusing them. Let us not abandon others because it is too hard for us. Second, a little encouragement goes a long way. We don’t necessarily need to have answers or solutions to people’s pain. We just need to stand by them. Knowing that we care goes a long way. May our lives reflect Onesiphorus rather than Phygelus and Hermogenes. May we refresh those who are hurting rather than turn away from them.

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