Matthew 6:1-4 - Secret Giving

Matthew 6:1-4 (ESV)

[1] “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.

[2] “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. [3] But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, [4] so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

In Matthew 5 Jesus instructed his disciples to pray in secret. In chapter 6 he tells them to give in secret. The first few times I saw an online video where someone paid for a stranger’s bill or gave a homeless person a meal and some money, I thought that it was inspiring. But the more I have reflected on it, the more self-serving it seems. If it was about helping someone, why was it recorded? No doubt some of those making these posts are selfless, and some of these posts have inspired others to give. Yet, the video likely gained the people involved more followers, perhaps more paid clicks, and certainly more online visibility. Was it a way of helping, or just a way to get more hits on their posts?

Jesus is not saying that we need to be secretive. That is, there is no need to hide your non-profit contributions from the IRS in order to be obedient to this command. We don’t give because there is a deduction on our tax returns, but there is certainly nothing wrong with paying the IRS less. That’s just good stewardship. While our giving may not be secretive, it is to be secret. Giving is not about publishing our giving. It is not about getting good press. It’s not about impressing someone. If we give with a check, or if we give online then someone knows what we gave. We don’t need to go to extremes to guarantee that no one knows. But we don’t publish that information either; we don’t brag about it to others. Even though we take a deduction on our taxes, it’s not about deductions. Whether it is giving to the church, giving to an organization that helps people, or giving to a needy individual or family, our giving is to the Lord,

These instructions about private prayer and private giving are not just another rule to memorize and obey. They are a not so much about being secretive as they are about guarding against obedience for the sake of appearance. Any time we need to let other people know how spiritual we are, how much Bible we know, how many hours we spend in prayer, how much we give, we need to check our own hearts. Why do we feel that we need to reveal those things? Is our service to God or is it to look good to people? Beware of the need to impress people. It is a dangerously slippery slope.

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